Starting virtual Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy for your child can bring up a lot of questions!  It's a new approach for many families, and understanding how it works, what to expect, and how you'll be involved is key to a successful journey. To help you feel confident and prepared, here are five essential questions to ask your child's virtual Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA).

1. How will ABA look different virtually compared to in-person therapy?

Virtual ABA takes place in the most natural setting for your child - your home; and on something MOST kids nowadays are awesome with - technology. While you won’t see the same clinic setup, your BCBA will adapt strategies to fit everyday routines and your child’s environment. This might mean using visuals on-screen, coaching you through live situations, or turning daily activities (like snack time or playtime) into learning opportunities.

The difference? Therapy isn’t just about "what happens in session."  It’s about learning how to apply the skills when you are away from the computer screen. Virtual ABA often feels more flexible and personal because you’re learning right alongside your child! This way, you can both apply the skills you’ve learned together. 

2. How will you support me and my child when you aren’t right here?

Parents sometimes worry: If you’re not physically with us, how will you help? Such a valid question! That’s where coaching comes in. Your BCBA can give real-time feedback, model strategies over video, and share resources like visuals, schedules, or step-by-step guides. You’ll also practice strategies together so you feel confident using them when your child needs support outside of session.

Think of it this way: you’re never left "on your own." You’ll always have tools and a plan to lean on.

3. What are your credentials and experiences?

It’s okay — and encouraged (seriously please ask) — to ask your BCBA about their background. All BCBAs are board-certified and trained in evidence-based strategies, but every BCBA has their own experiences and strengths. Some may have worked extensively with younger children, while others specialize in older kids or teens. Some come from exclusively working virtually while others have experience in a clinical setting, public school, or an in-home setting. Some BCBAs have exclusive experience working with Autism Spectrum Disorder, while others have vast experience working with ADHD, ODD, OCD, PTSD, eating disorders, and so many other medical diagnoses. 

This question helps you feel assured that your BCBA has the training and perspective that fits your child’s needs. It also sets the tone for transparency and trust in your partnership.

4. What can I expect to contribute as a parent or caregiver?

In virtual ABA, parents play a big role, but that doesn’t mean you have to be perfect. Your BCBA will guide you on how to prompt, reinforce, and practice skills with your child. You might also help collect data during daily routines or model strategies your child is working on.

The goal isn’t to add more stress to your plate. Instead, it’s about giving you tools to make everyday moments like brushing teeth, asking for help, and playing a game part of your child’s learning.

5. How will we track progress together?

Every parent wants to see results. Your BCBA should keep you updated with progress notes, share what the data means in plain language, and celebrate wins (big and small) with you. Knowing how progress is tracked helps you stay connected to your child’s journey and reassures you that therapy is moving in the right direction. Clear progress keeps you connected and empowered to advocate for your child’s needs as they grow. It ensures you’re a true partner and leader in their care.

Honorable Mention: How will therapy goals be personalized for my child and our family?

ABA isn’t one-size-fits-all. When goals reflect your child’s unique strengths and your family’s priorities, therapy is more meaningful. Ask your BCBA how they’ll make sure goals are tailored to what matters most- whether that’s safety, communication, independence, or daily routines. Virtual ABA allows for a focused care model to be individually tailored to your child and your family’s needs.

Wrapping It Up

Starting virtual ABA can feel overwhelming, especially when it is new to your family. By asking these questions, you’ll gain clarity on what to expect, how your BCBA will support you, and how therapy will truly make a difference. At AnswersNow, we believe parents are the heart of their child’s success, and we’re here to guide you every step of the way.

Reach out to us to get started or with any questions at https://www.getanswersnow.com/